Is this the generation of change? I hope so.
And hopefully, after you have finished reading this article you will
know what to do to change it.
If we looked at the biggest difference between, say, a
fifteen year old and a thirty year old what will we see? We may notice that adults tend to have a
higher maturity level, are more responsible and tend to have more respect for
authority. I have noticed that what we
call "adult" (a.k.a. 18) is
not really an adult at all. People set
low expectations for teens but they also set them, sometimes even lower, for
young adults. People think, "after
high school I will start acting like an adult". But peer pressure comes in, and they start
acting even less mature than usual.
Low expectations are creeping into even older age
groups. Why? - several reasons
probably. For one, life is
"easier" now with technology, allowing people more free time, two,
people have been liking more and more the thought of "enjoying life"
before you need to really get responsible. But when lower expectations are set for them
now, lower expectations are set for them in the future. How do we change this? If you have read 'Do Hard Things' you probably
know: change the way we act. Changing the way we act is the root of it
all. Not all of us have the time,
opportunity or ability to graduate early or be a teen campaign manager; but
this is something everyone can do.
What will we do differently?
You may want to brainstorm but here are some ideas:
Be less dramatic.
This is one of the key things people think about when they hear
"teen".
Act older. This one
is not all that hard. It is pretty easy
for people to think you are a couple years older. Simply imitate the manner of people older
than you.-people who are mature and responsible.
Spend your time more wisely.
Suffering grades are not impressive; and they certainly do not show
maturity. Nearly everyone would rather
be with their friends, or watching a movie.-but take the time to study, it will
be worth it. Managing your time wisely
not only shows maturity, but responsibility, self-control, and competence.
Do not be too loud.
Ever passed a group of teens talking loudly; with everyone just looking at
them, at shaking their heads? You do not
want to be this person.
There is a multitude of other things. Go ahead, make a list.-you may be surprised. This is what we can actively do in our everyday
life.
We can also encourage others to join the Rebelution
cause. Imagine, multitudes of people
rising above their expectations, doing hard things, little things, big things;
while helping the world and changing the view of teens; and other people.
It is time to take action. When people notice your high
maturity level; tell them about your cause.
Lets say there is 7 billion teens in the US. -and that 50'000 of them have
joined the Rebelution cause. If each of
those 50'000 people were able to get 5
people to join the Rebelution cause each year there would be 250'000
Rebelutionaries next year; if those 250'000 did the same thing there would be a
total of 1'250'000 people living out the Rebelution! If this happened yet again; in five years
that number would rise to 156'250'000! I
think you get the point.
It is estimated that the average person meets 100'000 people
in their lifetime; so this should not be too hard. Even something as simple as
being friendly to the cashier or waitress; or reading "Do Hard
Things" while waiting in the sitting room for your Doctors
appointment. Personally I love to read,
and I find it very common for people to ask me what I am reading. -it makes a
great conversation starter; and a time to explain your cause.
This is the generation of change, what will that change
be? Change comes from people; so I will
quote Mahatma Gandhi:
"You must be the change you wish to
see in the world."
So go, take a stand, spread the word, and change yourself.
This is beautifully written! I would love to know more about the Rebelution Cause is. I have never heard that, although I have heard of revolution before. The book sounds interesting. I will have to look it up.
ReplyDeleteMaybe your readers will like a link to the cause and to the book?